Max Moss, the best newspaperman I ever knew, died at 11:30 a.m. Thursday at his home in Pleasant View, Tennessee.
He had been fighting cancer for a long time, and he knew for
the last few months that he was going to lose the battle.
After his first diagnosis more than a year ago, he underwent treatment, and the cancer subsided and it seemed like he may be out of the woods. But, as it usually does, the cancer returned with a vengeance a few months ago, and the doctors gave him at the most six months to live.
I think, because he was a tough but kind gentleman, Max made
it through four of those months in pretty good style, and he really didn’t need
to be on pain medicine for much of that time. I believe he was as determined as
possible to keep his head clear.
He wanted to be able to talk with his wife of 59 years, Merrily
– more on her in a bit – and with his kids and grandchildren. Perhaps spin a
fishing yarn or two. Maybe talk about his old friend, Bobby Knight, the
legendary coach of Max’s beloved Indiana University Hoosiers, whose antics made
the old alum chuckle. I’m not sure he liked it when Bob threw the chair across
the court, but other than that, the eccentricities of the coach pretty much
delighted Max.
I ran into Knight a few times, and I told Max the coach was
an asshole. Max just laughed. “That’s just Bob,” he’d say. Max didn’t swear – I
took care of more than the whole newsroom’s share – but I think to Max, Coach
Knight perhaps was an asshole, but a lovable one.
Until recent days, I was able to call him, and he
was never one to complain. In fact, the last time we spoke, which was just
before this last descent toward death, I asked him how he was doing.
“Can’t complain,” he said, one of his regular expressions.
“Don’t really have all that nasty stuff yet.” Or maybe he called it “icky
stuff.” Like I said, he didn’t swear.
He didn’t dwell on it, but I could tell he was having a hard
time talking, and he needed to get off the phone in 15 minutes or so. Most of
our calls lasted at least a half-hour. But my friend was running out of fire.
I also knew that I wasn’t going to interfere with his pride
by forcing him to talk when it really was becoming almost impossible, because
of the drain on his lungs. Of course,
the cancer wasn’t just in his lungs. It had spread to the liver as well.
It never got to his spirit.
Here’s a note I got from him on June 11:
The
news is not good.
Monday,
I learned the latest scan I had shows I have cancer in my liver and my
lung. Nothing can be done to stop/slow its spread.
"Maybe
six months" is what Max Jr., Karen and I learned when we met with the
specialist who helps folks dealing with such situations.
For
now, while I'm still feeling OK, Merrily and I, with the kids' help, are getting
our financial and other such details in order.
Max
Perfect
news writing. Who, What, When, Where, Why and How in the lead. Inverted
pyramid. Solid ending adding final information.
Because
of the COVID thing, I could not go up to see him in the last few months. I am
fortunate enough that I went up there just before the shutdown. It was before the final diagnosis, but he
knew that time was coming.
I
really needed to see him then. I knew he
was failing, not from complaints from him but because his son, Max Jr., kept me
informed.
Max
Jr. was there the last time I was up there and Max and Merrily were in good
spirits, sharing donuts that their son had picked up fresh that morning. I knew he was getting tired then, too, so I
left after an hour or two and rolled back downhill to Nashville.
Besides
that, the two Maxes were bound for yet another doc’s visit in Nashville. Max Jr. took the donuts along when he and his
dad climbed into the young man’s fire-engine-red pickup with Oklahoma tags.
The
last three times when I have called up there, Max was sleeping. I spoke with Merrily and Karen while he
rested.
But, like I said, the last time I spoke with
him, maybe three weeks ago, he was the same loving old friend who pretty much
taught me all I ever needed to know about being a newspaperman.
We
talked about our lives in newspapers. We spoke of pica poles and souping film,
printing it wet and sizing it for reproduction in the camera room. Cigarettes tossed to the floor of the
composing room while Glover Williams put the waxed copy on the pages.
I
reminded him again of my “Whitey Ford/Fuchs Winner” headline when we spoke of
the art of getting headlines to fit, back before the computer took that task,
basically all of the layout and design tasks, over.
We
spoke of the first time I met him. It was on the second day I worked at The
Leaf-Chronicle in Clarksville. Monday, I
reported to work with sports editor Gene Washer, who had hired me the week
before for $125 a week, just enough that I could afford an efficiency apartment
in a rundown section of town on the other side of Crossland and near the
Cumberland River.
Monday
was Max’s day off. Seeing as that was September 12, 1974 or thereabouts and it
was sunny, I’m sure Max was out at Lake Barkley, fishing.
I
did go out with him once when he fished Barkley. He wanted to see if I’d become
interested. Or maybe he just wanted to spend some time with me – we loved each
other as friends and colleagues – so he bought me a one-day license. I think he
lacked faith that I’d take up the hobby. He was right. My only passion back
then was in the newsroom. Or maybe in a bar.
Anyway,
I enjoyed being with him when we launched at Bumpus Mills Marina, in Stewart
County, but I believe I only caught one crappie. And I avoided a snake hanging
from one of the branches.
We
stopped on the way back at another spot near Barkley where he wanted to show me
a beaver dam. No, we didn’t kill any beaver and eat them.
Hell,
we’d barely gotten crappie, but thanks to Max, we did carry enough back to the
Moss’ North Clarksville home for that evening’s meal. Merrily cleaned and
cooked them.
It
wasn’t too long after that Max asked me to come out to his house and help him
get a pool table down in the basement. It was a tough job. And I know when he
moved, he left the pool table in the basement.
Oh,
Max and I did take many more drives out to Bumpus Mills Marina, because he and
Merrily had purchased land there. They later gave up plans of building a home
there. But he did like to go look at
that land and also down at the water. He was good company. We several times
paced out his lot, and he continued to dream of walking from his house and
dropping a crappie line in off the dock.
Before
I go on much farther, I need to mention more about Merrily. She is a wonderful
woman, always welcoming me into their home. In fact, on Saturdays, Max and I
generally would get into the newsroom at around 10 a.m. or so. We had about 16 broadsheet pages to fill for
Sunday. We’d work until at least 1 a.m.
We’d
spend the first couple hours talking to football and basketball coaches to get
the results of games we hadn’t covered. Back then, The Leaf-Chronicle, the
oldest newspaper in the state, covered something like seven or eight counties,
including all of the ones in the immediate area of Tennessee as well as two
counties in Kentucky.
Oh,
and we also covered the sports at Fort Campbell, the military post near where
Max lived and the place where he had served much of his own infantry stint. He did go to Vietnam once, delivering some
top-secret papers from honchos at Fort Campbell to others in Saigon. He told me he was scared (he didn’t say, “shitless,”
but he didn’t need to), and was glad to uncuff that briefcase and leave it in
Nam and get the hell … or “the heck” … back to Clarksville and Fort Campbell.
Anyway,
I was talking about Merrily. In recent
weeks, when I have called up to the comfortable house she and her husband
shared in Pleasant View, Tennessee – halfway between Clarksville and Nashville
– she answered the phone. “Your buddy’s sitting right here,” she’d say. Or
“your buddy’s sleeping, so if you can call back later.”
The
last time I spoke with her, though, her words were a little scrambled. I
figured she was a little tired. Max Jr.
told me, a few days later, that she had suffered a stroke, likely brought on by
the stress of caring for her husband. And, of course, knowing all the while
that it was a losing cause.
Merrily,
it should be mentioned, is brave in her own right. Long ago, she worked for the city of
Clarksville, with her workspace being in the City Garage. That apparently was before people realized how
caustic a workplace can be, and her lungs were permanently scarred by the fumes
created when cars and trucks were being painted.
She
is down to something like 10 percent lung capacity. But she doesn’t complain,
either. In fact, she joked with me that
as Max’s disease got worse, he was even having to use more oxygen than her.
Max
told me, with a laugh, that the problem with being on oxygen was that he and
Merrily got their hoses – those thin, clear plastic things attached to the
oxygen tanks – tangled up.
Since
my last call to Merrily – her husband was resting and morphine was taking its
toll – I have spoken with their beloved children, Max Jr. and Karen. I’ve known them since they were children, of
course.
Both
of them would be in their family room on Saturday nights when Max and I took
our dinner break. We’d been in early, and we would close out late. So we
usually took about an hour and a half, picked up some Whoppers with cheese at
the Burger King by the Red River and we’d go out to the Moss home to watch
Archie Bunker. Max provided the beer, although we limited ourselves to one or
two, because we still had hours of work to go.
We
always were joined by Fluffy, the wonderful black dog with the imaginative name,
who was glad for hamburger scraps. I was
very sad when Fluffy died.
Oh,
and the smoking. I had smoked since I
was about 16. In high school it was mostly cigars and pipes that I would puff
on while walking along nearby Lake Michigan (we lived in the barely-northern
suburbs of Chicago). In college, during
my first set of finals, I ran out of cigars in the middle of the night and went
down to the commons room below the dorm to put two quarters in the machine for
a pack of Camels or maybe Marlboros or Winstons. Not Luckys though, even though
LSMFT was their slogan (Lucky Strike Means Fine Tobacco).
My
smoking of tobacco and otherwise became a big part of my being as I made it
through college. I liked to roll my own,
but Camels probably were my preferred tobacco cigarette.
When
I got out of college in 1973, and after I toured the country in my 1965 Ford
Falcon, I gave up smoking. Not a big deal. Oh, the occasional “pipe” or cigar,
but no cigarettes.
When
I first stepped in that Leaf-Chronicle newsroom on September 12, 1974, I
quickly learned that quitting smoking for health reasons was fruitless.
Everybody, even copy desk chief and religion columnist, Big Jim Monday, smoked
cigarettes. Max was one of the worst
offenders. I sat between him and Gene Washer and puffing machine Richard
Worden, the city editor who eventually died of leg injuries from his stint as a
Marine in Vietnam, was a few feet behind me.
The
first day or so, I bummed cigarettes. But then I figured “what the hell,” and
went back to the break room and slid in two or three quarters for my own
pack. Before I quit smoking, 20 years
later, I sometimes reached three packs a day. That went well with my 40 cups of
coffee a day average.
I’m
kind of wandering around here. Even though I knew he was dying, any day, it is
hard to grasp fully. He wouldn’t approve of all this wandering around, either.
Get to the (fucking) point.
I
think about the first ballgame he worked with me. It was Thursday night at
Municipal Stadium in Clarksville, where Erin (Now Houston County High School)
was taking on The Clarksville Academy. I guess that would have been Sept. 15,
1974.
I
can’t remember who won. Doesn’t really matter. All I can remember is Max’s
steady reassurance as he taught me how to properly fill out a scorebook and
take pictures and notes all at the same time. I must have done OK, since that
was my only training session. I went back to the newsroom to write the story.
Max went home, apparently satisfied that I’d do OK.
The
next night I was on my own, probably at Fort Campbell, while Max went to either
Clarksville or Northwest, the only high schools in the city back then.
He’s
the guy who taught me the disciplines of newspapering: use of the pica pole,
sizing wheel, layout and design, developing film, printing pictures, editing
wire and other copy.
I
pretty much already knew how to write, but I felt assured when it was Max who
was the guy with the wax pencil going through my copy. I knew that whatever
changes he made were warranted. He told me I was the best writer he knew. That
meant a lot.
He
really liked my stories from New Orleans, when I covered the Muhammad Ali-Leon
Spinks fight for the Chronicle. Max was managing editor by then and I was
sports editor.
He
was as much a friend as a boss (he was assistant sports editor when I began
there). And he also was a professor, who valued what he saw from his pupils. I was
the main pupil for a few years.
I
eventually became sports editor after Max had a heart attack or some such, and
it was decided he needed to keep more regular hours and stay off the road.
It’s
funny now, seeing as how things change, that when I went to the hospital to
visit Max after that heart problem, we both sat there smoking and
laughing. As far as I know that behavior
is not acceptable in today’s society.
When
Max became managing editor, he named me
his associate editor, and that pretty much had me tending to the paper
while it was being put together.
There’s
a lot more I could say about Max and the lessons I learned. The laughs we
shared. The trifecta bets we made weekly during the season at the track in
Evansville, Indiana. Ellis Park? I think. Max would go and place the bet as
Gene Washer and I chipped in $2 apiece. I don’t think we ever won.
It
was like the football cards we played weekly in those days when gambling was
illegal. The horizontal pink pieces of paper were available at Poor Man’s
Country Club or other purveyors of beer and bait. We’d all go in for $2 apiece.
And we’d generally lose.
Max
and I went on to work together at the Nashville Banner (he went there a few
years ahead of me), where he was wire editor and did some outdoors writing.
When the Banner closed, Max didn't get a job at The Tennessean, which bought us out. I don't know why they didn't hire him. His age or their ignorance? Or maybe he wanted a change. So he took his fishing pole and knowledge and was writer-producer of the outdoors module of country.com, a web site operated by Turner Broadcasting and CBS.
When that job played out, he pretty much went home to Pleasant View, where he could more easily take care of his bride as her health diminished, while he set up shop as a freelance writer, covering outdoors topics, fishing in particular. His “research” for that was tough: He had to take his boat out and fish for crappie or whatever. And shoot pictures of dawn at Lake Barkley. He didn’t hunt, though. One Christmas his family gave him a deer rifle. I don’t think he ever used it. “I couldn’t go out there and kill Bambi,” he said.
He edited a national bass fisherman's magazine, The Lunker Hole, for awhile. And he was head of the Tennessee Outdoor Writers Association and other organizations involving hunting and fishing. He also was active in his church and on the local planning commission.
Max
quit smoking long ago, so his cancer came as a shock to me. To him, too. But he
was stoic. He sat in his chair, next to the chair where Merrily sat, and
watched cowboy movies during the many months leading up to his death.
The
last time we talked, before he began his long descent into sleep and death, we
were hankering for the days of real film, typewriters, the pneumatic tube that
carried stories and art (photos is what they call them now) to be typeset, the
art of counting spaces and writing the perfect headline. Carrying pages to the
camera room to be shot before they were turned into plates. Standing by the
presses with the foreman, checking the pages, making sure they were just right,
before we let them go. Neither the pressmen nor the newspapermen wanted smeared
pages. Nowadays, there is no such stopgap of running a few hundred, allowing
for the good ones to finally begin spitting off the press. Of course, there aren’t many newspapers
anyway.
We
talked of our many friends in the business who are gone. And we wondered how
many of the coaches we worked with still were alive.
“I’d
do anything to go back to those days when we worked together back in the ‘70s,”
I told him. I meant it.
“Me
too,” he said. “You know, we sound like a couple of old movie gunfighters who are
being pushed out by progress.”
I
thought of Butch and Sundance, The Wild Bunch, even The Shootist. The stories really weren’t about the fact
they died. But how they lived. And didn’t back down. Time just ran out on them.
Then
he said: “You know, Tim, you always were a free-spirit. You had fun while we worked together.”
Yeah,
I did rebel a lot during my life, but only against authority figures I didn’t
respect. Still do, really. My soul
hasn’t changed.
I
never swore at Max nor showed him disrespect.
Other bosses, the ones who specialized in back-stabbing and lying and
age discrimination, well, they didn’t earn that degree of respect.
I always
respected … nah, I always will respect Max Moss, a classy gentleman, kind soul,
fair fisherman, my mentor, a great boss and fine family man.
The
story isn’t that he’s dead, of course. But that such a man lived and will
forever inhabit a spot in my life.
Max,
Rest In Peace.
I
love you, old friend. And I’m sure they
have pica poles in heaven. You might see
if Glover is there to help you paste up the pages. Hell, Max, now you can even
fire up a Winston and see if Glover has the whiskey bottle he always kept in
his desk. Sounds reasonable to me.
Max Moss was the best newspaperman I ever met.
Stop
the presses.
Good stuff, Tim. Spike it.
ReplyDeleteI now feel like I have a really good idea who Max was.....the kind of friend we should all strive to be. An integrity driven man with a good heart willing to help folks in the most absolute powerful way, providing knowledge, both sad and happy, and the kind of stories that provide entertainment through recreation and fun, not to mention life lessons along the way which create the kind of memories that last a lifetime. Max was “a damn nice guy” in it’s truest sense. Max you are my friend too now. Thank you Sir for setting the bar for a true class act. You rock Max! Rest In Heaven you have touched lots of lives with yours.
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Rich Liebe (Friend)
A great tribute to a great man
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